where have all the vikers gone

it has now officially been 8 days since the last post. far too long for a once buzzing blog which churned out posts daily. i figured it was about time to put a stop to this non-writing strike.

but problem is, i don't know what to write. i could give you all the sordid details of my pathetic social life...but it wouldn't be so sordid. maybe i should write something philosophical. ok. i think i will do that.

ch-ch-ch-changes
i know i've probably written about this before, but it's (partly) my blog and i'll write what i want to. anyway, this is a long lost conversation with a friend of mine about people changing once they find themselves in a relationship. tonight is not so much about experiencing change once you're in a relationship, it's more about experiencing change in life. why are people so scared of change?

i mean let's look at it this way. people expect you to change once you start dating someone, when you go travelling for so and so months, when you graduate. basically when any major milestone happens. so you're stuck in a situation (ie. LIFE) where you will inevitably change as a person.

flashback to this friend of mine...let's name her...imelda. now imelda expressed her concerns about changing for the worse after hooking up with her man, which she promptly asked for my opinion. needless to say i was stumped for an answer, as usual. instead, i came up with a neat little theory. the theory of change. haha. i've probably plagiarised this from some movie, knowing me.

so the theory? people never really completely change. i think parts of your real self just become exposed to the world over time and it's labelled as "change". so certain situations and circumstances can cause these dormant parts of your personality to surface, whether you like it or not. i guess it's how you manage all the parts of your personality that is the key to maintaining who you are despite having something like your inner bitch come roaring suddenly to the surface.

shoop shoop

i have two weeks before i'm flying the coop!

part of me is terribly excited.

most of me is terribly freaked out that i will be in another country...no wait, make that another continent, in two weeks time.

on my own.

help.

underwear party

how morbid.
my friend just came to the realisation that there are only 2 times in one's lives (if we're following standard procedures and traditions) where you wil be able to get all your favourite friends and family in one big get together.

the first is your wedding.
the second is your funeral.

now is that just me or does others think that's kinda morbid?

naked josh

take this bugs. i will not let you win.
you have taken zelda down with you.
you have taken zelda's princess down with you.
you have taken my boy down with you.

you will not take me down with you.
i will win.
just watch me.

[save room for a moment to be with me]

...and so sings the great john legend. at first i was a cynic to his new single but now i LOVE it! something about the smooth tunes or because it's just one of those songs that you can dance to. provided that you have a partner who can groove you around the room.

sigh.

if anyone's interested it's called [save room].

sigh.

i need to go find myself a smooth dance partner.

buzz buzz

i am now qualified as an occupational therapist. as of this very afternoon. no matter about the technical paperwork and stuff.

WOOHOO!!!!!

celebrations tonight with lots of alcoholic drinkies...what i like best.

WOOHOO!!!!!

dancing in the moonlight

WILL SOMEONE TAKE ME OUT DANCING???????????????

whirling cesspool of darkness

what do you get when you combine a "fashion roadshow" with a sarcastic note volunteering your services?

a horrified size 10 as-unmodel-like-as-you-can-get model who can't walk in high heels.

and hysterical laughter from just about all of her friends.