nemo? where are you?
damn! olga posted! now here i was on an endeavour to claim this blog as mine...mine...MINE! and wipe out any traces of red writing...
but to continue on with olga's ex-factor post, it has inspired me to expand my thinking and cohabit it with hers.
now one of her more frequently said sayings (why to me i'm not so sure...) is that they (the two said people) are ex's for a reason. whether it might have been a mutual breakup, an acrimonious breakup, or just plain old fashion bitch fight breakup. they broke up. period. no longer romantically involved.
BUT...in speaking to another friend of mine, who i must warn you think on a completely different plane of thought to dear olga, asked me a very intriguing, and quite frankly stumping question. what happens if the feelings they once had for each other resurface? and you happen to be the one caught in the downfall as you are dating one of the two people?
faced with this scenario, most typical women and girls would climb on their stilettos and shout madly that they forbid their guy to have contact with his ex. they would then further explain, that it is not that they don't trust their boyfriend/partner/gentlemen caller but the doubt and paranoia associated with their guy and his ex rediscovering their once intimate feelings for each other would not in lesser terms make them happy at all.
seems unfair right? or maybe its just down to the aspect that it tends to be (not that i subscribe to the stereotypical idea) that women are the more "insecure" sex of the two. whatever the reason, i can see both point of views. YES there is a reason that they are ex's, but then YES there is also the possibility that somewhere along the line, the two may "fall in love" with each other all over again. but then there's also the possibility that pigs might fly, and so i'm willing to gamble with the odds i have.
i'm not gonna be banning anyone of you guys from seeing/dating/marrying anyone i know/am connected to in anyway, shape or form. i only want you to be happy. the question now is how do i stop the paranoid thoughts in my head???
but to continue on with olga's ex-factor post, it has inspired me to expand my thinking and cohabit it with hers.
now one of her more frequently said sayings (why to me i'm not so sure...) is that they (the two said people) are ex's for a reason. whether it might have been a mutual breakup, an acrimonious breakup, or just plain old fashion bitch fight breakup. they broke up. period. no longer romantically involved.
BUT...in speaking to another friend of mine, who i must warn you think on a completely different plane of thought to dear olga, asked me a very intriguing, and quite frankly stumping question. what happens if the feelings they once had for each other resurface? and you happen to be the one caught in the downfall as you are dating one of the two people?
faced with this scenario, most typical women and girls would climb on their stilettos and shout madly that they forbid their guy to have contact with his ex. they would then further explain, that it is not that they don't trust their boyfriend/partner/gentlemen caller but the doubt and paranoia associated with their guy and his ex rediscovering their once intimate feelings for each other would not in lesser terms make them happy at all.
seems unfair right? or maybe its just down to the aspect that it tends to be (not that i subscribe to the stereotypical idea) that women are the more "insecure" sex of the two. whatever the reason, i can see both point of views. YES there is a reason that they are ex's, but then YES there is also the possibility that somewhere along the line, the two may "fall in love" with each other all over again. but then there's also the possibility that pigs might fly, and so i'm willing to gamble with the odds i have.
i'm not gonna be banning anyone of you guys from seeing/dating/marrying anyone i know/am connected to in anyway, shape or form. i only want you to be happy. the question now is how do i stop the paranoid thoughts in my head???
posted by viking_mistresses at 6:20 PM
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