ex factor

after reading the last two posts of complete incoherent babble, i had to inject some vague normality into the mix. now i was thinking in the shower, where all my bursts of inspiration occur to me, about THE EX. depending on the situation, you're either the ex girlfriend or you're in a relationship where there is an ex girlfriend on the scene. (sorry boys, just substitute "girlfriend" for "boyfriend" if you happen to be reading).

i've listened to it too many times about the whole paranoia with ex's blah blah blah to investigate that. what i want to explore today is...when does THE EX just go back to being a friend? you know what i mean. you stop referring to them as "my ex" and revert back to "my friend". is that even possible in today's society?

maybe when you're an EX, you're stuck with that label forever. i guess it's not such a bad thing. you as the EX represent a certain time period in YOUR EX's life. now depending on how things ended...it's not such a bad label. as opposed to "that evil bitch" or something of that nature. i've probably simplified things a bit too much. so i've come to the conclusion that THE EX will just remain the EX. after all, they all exist on a different parallel to your friends.

stay tuned next week for busting the myths about the potential dangers of THE EX.

ok so maybe my post has just added to the mix of instability and complete confusion on this blog.