brutal truths

so there are those people who say one thing, or many things and yet when push comes to shove they never go through with their actions

then there are those people who say one thing, or many things and never mean it cos their actions contradict what they say in the first place

then there are those who never accepts what is being said to them
and then there are those who have actual consideration for other people, their feelings, their circumstances etc.

and then there are those who can dish out the honest brutal truth to people near and dear, and those not so near and dear AND who says one or many things and when time calls will go through with their actions AND who can say one or many things and mean it cos their actions don't contradict what they said in the first place AND can accept things being said to them (like the answer NO) AND think about other's besides themselves

i would like to think i am the latter. not just cos it sounds good. but by the fact that i have in many and varied circumstances have done exactly what i said i would, what i set out to do, held no bars back in telling people the truth, can accept it with no grudges when a person says NO to me, and that i actually think what my request would mean to the other person in terms of them having to go out of their way yada yada. at least i don't ask people to do things for me without at least attempting it first, or perhaps more significantly asking them right at the last minute and making them either feel guilty or corner them so that they have no other choice but to answer in the affirmative.

consideration people. and reciprocation. all relationships, friendships are a two way street. it's a give and take situation. don't expect it to be all one way.

BEWARE THE TROLL IS BACK... AND SHE AIN'T HAPPY. SHE'S MAD. SHE'S ANGRY AND SHE'S NOT PLAYING NICE.

i'm not afraid to say no to people. and now i'm not afraid to enforce it too. no more ms nice girl. you've all been warned.