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just in case i needed one...

DISCLAIMER: this post is not meant for anyone. it's a general one that arose from viking mistress conversations.

friendship rocks
yes we are back here again. but i guess there are times when i realise what it means to have close friends. a friendship that is based on years spent knowing each other, knowing what the other person is like, knowing most of their secrets.

i've often been in conversations about what the meaning of love is...but less so about what the meaning of friendship is. i read a quote somewhere that friendship is more accepting of love. basically you let your friends get away with a lot more than you would your significant other. funny sort of thought, but oh so true.

there is something about the friends i have that i don't want to lose. it's a combination of acceptance, loyalty, trust, sarcasm, cynicism, and many other things. but a small proportion of these friends keep it real. they offer constructive comments, would defend you till the end of time...but this is the clincher. they'll tell you anything to get you to realise the error of your ways. and it won't be to judge you (well not completely anyway), as some people tend to do. these rare friends make you see the error of your ways so that you can grow and evolve as a person.

it takes some pretty special people to do that. and i'm glad i have them in my life.